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| Hope you enjoy these photos of reunited birth family members sent to Berta from clients all over the United States! |
Hello Berta,
It has been year since I reached out to you in my time of struggle. I was at a point of
time in my life, where I knew the adoption issue was at a surface. For years, I
avoided the situation, and the pain of not knowing all who I am began to show
through. It began to affect me and the people around me, and it was then that I knew
that I needed to do something.
With the support of my family and with your help, I was able to find my birthmother.
What a year it has been! My birthmother, Constance, and I have a great relationship,
and have actually met and visited with each other a few times. I currently have a
great relationship with her husband and their children, my brother and sister. I have
also since talked with and had correspondence with my birth-father, who never left
Germany , and who has a five year old daughter of his own. There have been some
trying and very emotional times with Constance , and I never really realized how
difficult it can be to balance two families. Although difficult at times, very worth every
second of the whole experience.
I believe that my relationship with my family has strengthened. Sometimes it can be
hard to talk about Constance and her family with my family. It’s something that I try
my best to stay open with, but can find challenging at times for the simple reason
that I don’t enjoy balancing people’s emotions. I am still trying to talk to my brother in
depth about everything, but he is 18 and that can be challenging. However, we are
getting a quote tattooed on our back that says, “ the love of a brother needs no blood
to be a brother.”
My story is a crazy one. One that every adoption searcher should hear, and that I
would love to share. I can’t begin to tell you all that I have found out. The gaps that I
have filled in have made me more complete as a person, and the love gained and
shared is beyond words.
My life is complex and at the same time amazing. Berta, I am indebted to you for the
help and strength you guided me with in my time of despair. I thank you so very
much for all that you did. Attached is a pic of Constance and I when I visited them at
their house last September.
Best Regards,
Erik
It has been year since I reached out to you in my time of struggle. I was at a point of
time in my life, where I knew the adoption issue was at a surface. For years, I
avoided the situation, and the pain of not knowing all who I am began to show
through. It began to affect me and the people around me, and it was then that I knew
that I needed to do something.
With the support of my family and with your help, I was able to find my birthmother.
What a year it has been! My birthmother, Constance, and I have a great relationship,
and have actually met and visited with each other a few times. I currently have a
great relationship with her husband and their children, my brother and sister. I have
also since talked with and had correspondence with my birth-father, who never left
Germany , and who has a five year old daughter of his own. There have been some
trying and very emotional times with Constance , and I never really realized how
difficult it can be to balance two families. Although difficult at times, very worth every
second of the whole experience.
I believe that my relationship with my family has strengthened. Sometimes it can be
hard to talk about Constance and her family with my family. It’s something that I try
my best to stay open with, but can find challenging at times for the simple reason
that I don’t enjoy balancing people’s emotions. I am still trying to talk to my brother in
depth about everything, but he is 18 and that can be challenging. However, we are
getting a quote tattooed on our back that says, “ the love of a brother needs no blood
to be a brother.”
My story is a crazy one. One that every adoption searcher should hear, and that I
would love to share. I can’t begin to tell you all that I have found out. The gaps that I
have filled in have made me more complete as a person, and the love gained and
shared is beyond words.
My life is complex and at the same time amazing. Berta, I am indebted to you for the
help and strength you guided me with in my time of despair. I thank you so very
much for all that you did. Attached is a pic of Constance and I when I visited them at
their house last September.
Best Regards,
Erik
Erik and Constance
Brother and Sister Reunited
Son Reunited with Birth Mother and Sister
Son and Birth Mother Reunite March 2007
Doug reunited with his son Michael. Michael's sisters Mel and
Rachel and their mother Wendy! BEAUTIFUL! May, 2007
Rachel and their mother Wendy! BEAUTIFUL! May, 2007
Siblings Reunited June 2007
Sisters and Family Reunited in San Diego County July 2007
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| Cindy with her son and birth mother! January 2008 |
Jenny with her Mom (right) and Birth Mom 2007
Sibling reunion! Frank (left) and Cindy meet for the
first time in San Francisco with Cindy's son and
husband. January 2008
first time in San Francisco with Cindy's son and
husband. January 2008
Sisters Reunited ! January 2008
Brother and Sister Reunited! 2007
Update to January 2008 photo above-
As of April all three sisters have been reunited!
As of April all three sisters have been reunited!
Sibling Reunion 2008
| Son Reunited with Both Birth Parents 2008 |
Son Reunites with Birth Mom 2008
Sister and Brother Reunited 2008
Birth Mom and Son Reunited 2008
Son Reunited with Both Birth Parents 2008
Son Reunited with Birth Mother 2008